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Thursday, February 19, 2015

Signs of Spring!

There is a proverb that says, "No matter how long the winter, spring is sure to follow."  Of course, thoughts of spring bring thoughts of new life!  Today there were so many signs of new life that it was difficult not to think of spring:
  • We received word from City Green that the Passaic Neighborhood Center for Women is the recipient of a second-year Dig In! Grant to expand our community garden.  Thank you, City Green!  We look toward the future with hope, considering our garden area is now covered with much snow and ice.
  • Sister Mathilde, a second-year novice with the Sisters of Christian Charity, joined us for the day.  She is shown in the photos with some of the women in our Thursday English and Art classes.
  • The art class, under the direction of Sister of Charity Mary Culhane, ventured into charcoal with some very spring-like pussy willow presentations (see photos).
  • We held our first "Ladies' Night" -- now known as "Agua Vida" ("Living Water") -- with 15 women on Thursday evening.  This is the second year for these women.  However, as proof of this group's vitality, we will host a first-year group next week.
  • All of us came out today in the bone-chilling cold to gather at the Center, after several weeks of false starts and no starts due to the weather.  Can spring be far behind?
Stay warm and enjoy the photos.  (Email subscribers click here if you do not see photos in this email.)  As always, thank you for your support of the Passaic Neighborhood Center for Women.

Sister Mathilde with our women who are learning English



Sister Mathilde works alongside the art students.

An artist who is justifiably proud of her work!

Sister Mary demonstrates charcoal technique.
 
Signs of spring from today (top).
Completed still life from last class.
 

Thursday, January 29, 2015

Altagracia


Did you know that January 21 is "Dia de Altagracia" or "Altagracia Day" in the Dominican Republic?  It is a huge feast day and public holiday commemorating Our Lady of Altagracia, protector of the people of the Dominican Republic.  Did you also know that Passaic, NJ is #11 in the top 25 U.S. communities with the largest Dominican populations?  Put these two Wikipedia facts together and you get not only a whole lot of Altagracia devotion last week, but also a whole lot of learning for those of us new to living in Passaic!

Due to ministry schedules, our convent community has been attending many daily Masses at 7 pm during the past few weeks.  Most of these are Spanish-language Masses, so we are enriching our Spanish liturgical vocabulary and our "devotional competencies," if you will.  As we started noticing an increase in the "Altagracia Novena," we became more aware of the image (as seen at the top of this posting; e-mail subscribers, click here if you do not see the image) and of the Dominican devotion to her, but we remained unaware of the January 21 feast day -- that is, until we went to the 7 pm Mass on January 21!  Two hours later, we headed home with  a greater understanding of the importance of  the Virgin of Altagracia to the people with whom we live and minister (and with the fragrance of copious amounts of incense emanating from our clothing).  This two-hour liturgical celebration -- including my first prayed-in-common Spanish rosary -- was a surprise.  We were simply expecting to go to Mass and go home, as usual, but other plans had been made for us -- plans involving "high grace" (literal translation of "Altagracia").

It has taken me a week to "unpack" the learnings from this experience, and I have prayed to the Virgin of Altagracia to help me understand and articulate these learnings.  Although they are not completely formed, I share three of them with you today:
  • Always begin with wonder . . . but do not end there!  As this novena began in the middle of January, I wondered:  What is this? Why is this happening in the middle of January? Is this one of those novenas that is year-round and we are just being introduced to it now? What is the meaning of that image?  Why have I never seen it before?  However, just as quickly as I wondered these things, I forgot about them by the time I got home, where there were other things to tend to before going to bed.  I never really delved into it, except for Googling the image.  I also admit (in an embarrassing way), that I did not ask anyone with whom I prayed the novena prayers after Mass to explain what was happening.  My learning:  If wonder does not lead you to explore further and to form and strengthen human relationships, what good is wondering in the first place?
  • There is always a message . . . Wait for it.  During the two-hour liturgical experience, I said to myself (and out loud once or twice), "There is a reason why we are here."  Usually when I say this, I am thinking that there is someone who might need prayers or help or simply to talk.  I prepared myself for those possibilities.  Upon reflection, I realized that there was a reason why we were there, but it had little to do with anyone else needing something from us.  On the contrary, it had much to do with my needing to slow down, to attend to the prayer being offered (especially when it differs from the prayer I was expecting) and to pay attention to the devotion of this faith-filled community who welcomed us to pray during one of its most significant feasts.  My learning:  When considering God's message, expect the unexpected.
  • "High grace" is always being poured . . . Never refuse it.  Had I bothered to find out the significance of January 21 ahead of time, I would probably not have attended the 7:00 Mass that evening.  After all, we had a schedule that allowed for the efficient operation of our ministries and of our convent that day.  The schedule did not allow for two hours in church that evening!  Another Mass would have been much more consistent with our plans that evening.  But God's abundant -- even "high" -- grace was awaiting my awareness.  God, who cannot be outdone in generosity, was pouring grace, even before we arrived at the church.  What made us say, "We haven't been to a 7:00 Mass at St. Mary's yet; let's go there"?  What made me stay, although incense -- especially in such huge amounts -- makes me physically ill?  What made us "tough it out" for two hours, especially when two of the three of us are novices in the Spanish language?  One word:  GRACE!  My learning:  Pay attention to the grace!  Do not run from it, try to catch up with it or refuse its seemingly inefficient nature.  Be in the grace-filled moment.
Please consider learning more about SeƱora de Altagracia.  Start here if you have some time, but don't stop there.  You do not want to miss out on the grace!

On this bitterly cold day in Passaic, I wish you many warm graces, under the title of the Virgin of Altagracia:

Holy Virgin of Altagracia!
From your hands and your maternal heart we receive each day the sustenance that you give to us from Our Father in heaven. You are our defense in danger, our indispensable help in our necessities and our hope in the sacrifices required of the Christian life. Through your Immaculate Heart we desire to pay tribute to God with a hymn of thanksgiving for all the benefits you have distributed. We promise you, Oh Mother, gratitude and fidelity. You will always reign in our homes and in our town, where all venerate you as Our Lady and Mother, you who make all virtues increase and thrive. We are honored to be called your children. We hope to finish our lives serving God and you until we reach the highest grace possible, the grace you will help us to attain, the great gift of heaven itself.
Amen


Saturday, January 24, 2015

Art in the City

What progress our artists have made in three months' time!  Please take the time to look at the beautiful artwork of Sr. Mary Culhane's class.  This week, they completed their pastels and moved on to still life.  (E=mail subscribers, if you do not see photos embedded in your e-mail, please click here.)  We remain grateful to the Sisters of Charity of St. Elizabeth, Convent Station, for their generous grant to fund the art program.






Tuesday, December 30, 2014

525,600 minutes: How do we measure our year?

This year contained 12 months; 52 weeks; 365 days; 8,760 hours; 525,600 minutes.

It also contained about 1300 visits to the Passaic Neighborhood Center for Women, with October seeing the most visits (208) and January seeing the fewest (40).

The year witnessed about 1200 volunteer hours served by 25 volunteers (including 15 women religious, 8 college students and 2 lay women who were not college students).

During the year, our women had the opportunity to participate in 7 different classes or projects:  English, quilting, art, computer, gardening, ladies' night, and first anniversary preparations.

During any given week of the year, 6 different sections of English classes were taught.

The year saw a truly collaborative first anniversary celebration on September 24.

As we ring in 2015, we are immeasurably grateful to those of you who have made this possible by your love, prayers, service, donations and other contributions.  We wish you innumerable blessings during the new year. 

The times we have said this are too numerous to count, but we cannot say it enough: "Thank you and God bless you."

Saturday, December 27, 2014

From Our Family to Yours . . .


Today the church celebrates the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph.  [Shown above is the Holy Family art project that our women finished last week using their newly-taught pastel skills. (Email subscribers, please click here to view the photo if you do not see a photo above.)]

Just as the Holy Family was created and sustained by God who often conveyed messages in dreams,  the Passaic Neighborhood Center for Women is a family that exists because of God and dreamers.  Led by the dreamers who followed God's call to open a women's center in Passaic, our "holy family" of women, staff, benefactors, religious communities and the Diocese of Paterson has been created and sustained for 15 months. 

As we approach the beginning of 2015, we are grateful for the opportunity to continue to do what we do and we pray for everyone who supports us in this ministry.  From our family to yours:  Thank you and God bless you!



Thursday, December 4, 2014

It's beginning to look a lot like . . .

Sister Mary Culhane and our art students are completing their wreath projects today.  Here they are, in various stages of completion (email subscribers click here if you do not see photos below):






Thursday, November 27, 2014

We Give Thanks!

On this Thanksgiving 2014, we are grateful for the support of Bishop Serratelli and everyone in the Diocese of Paterson.  We are grateful to the religious communities whose spirit of collaboration and prayerful, material and human resources enable us to open our doors each day.  We are grateful to our staff, whose untiring love of the women of Passaic bears fruit each day.  We are grateful for the women who continue to grow and become empowered at the Passaic Neighborhood Center for Women.  Click here to view a slideshow that gathers together a few recent highlights.